Proverbs 7:4-5 (ESV) Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and call insight your intimate friend, to keep you from the forbidden woman, from the adulteress with her smooth words.
Pastor’s Commentary:
Did you know that Wisdom is a sanctifier? To sanctify is to make holy; or to separate from that which is defiled. That is exactly what Wisdom does in the life of the possessor.
Have you also noticed in your studies of Proverbs that Solomon places a great deal of emphasis on refraining from adultery? What is the significance of his admonitions?
Look closely at the commandment found in Proverbs 7:4. We are ordered to get as close to Wisdom and understanding (insight) as we possibly can. We’re instructed to view Wisdom as a close familial relationship. Why? To keep us from committing adultery.
It is paramount to understand that God sees close fellowship with the world as adultery, and not solely as a sexual act between unmarried partners. He calls believers with close, intimate (not necessarily sexual) relationships with unbelieving sinners adulterers. He sees those who embrace worldly standards of dress, behavior, conversation, marriage, etc. as unfaithful adulterers. Read James 4:4 in the English Standard Version of the Bible:
You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
He continues in verse 8:
Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.
Keep in mind that James is addressing Christians and not the unconverted. God’s stance on holiness has never changed and will never change. He expects us to live holy lives both spiritually and physically. The Apostle Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 7:1 (ESV), “Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, bringing holiness to completion in the fear of God.” And the Apostle Peter encouraged us in 1 Peter 1:15-16 saying, “But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.”
As we close out these last and evil days, it is very important to remain unstained by, and separated from the world. Wisdom, which is the Word of God, is the primary tool for keeping us from committing spiritual adultery. Remember what Jesus prayed in John 17:17. He said, “Sanctify them (set them apart) in the truth; Your Word [Wisdom] is truth.”
Embrace God’s Wisdom and remain sanctified!